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本当の友達

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今夜は英語のレッスン。

いつものように質問を用意した。

友達とは

ブログを始めてからリアルな生活での歪な人間関係が際立つ。

友達とは何なのか?

先生に聞いてみた。

Do you have a lot of friends?

For you, what is a friend?

What are the conditions under which you recognize your friends as friends?

Do you have a lot of friends?

信頼

先生は

Trustworthy

reliable during my up and down times.

そんな友達が5人いると言っていました。

私の友達

There may be few people who seem to be friends.

What my heart can forgive is a person who is far away.

I think that if I forgive my heart, I may upset the other person.

It’s a very familiar existence, and if I forgive my heart, it may cause a disorder to the other person’s life.

My friends far away just listen to me and sympathize with me.

But even a friend who just listens, is that a real friend? I wonder.

If you think about it, I don’t think there is a deeper connection than family.

Families support each other, what are their friends?

Empathy, trust, respect

A person who can feel it to each other.

I think that’s “friend”

I had a friend.

We acted together in various places together.

But it ended two years ago.

My friend is late to meet and won’t allow me to be a little late.

Friends don’t like to use paid vacation for people other than their friends.

The deciding factor is this word that my friend said.

“You are free.”

This is a scene from “Attack on Titan”,

The words that King Fritz said when he released the slave Ymir into the field to hunt the slave Ymir

When I heard those words, I felt that there was a lack of respect.

That’s why I quit my friend once.

The sense of distance of the mind is very important in human relationships.

私に今、リアルな心の許せる友達はいない?

マッサージ屋さんは結構包み隠さず話しているけど、それはお客と店員のお金を払ってのサービスなのか?という微妙な関係。

オンラインにこそ本当の友達は存在するのかも。

インターネットが浸透した現代、スキンシップが出来ないアンリアルな関係は少し寂しいが、心の繋がりやすい時代にはなったと思う。

 

私も先生も、こういう心の探究みたいな会話が好きだ。